Thanks for this very useful summary. My brother is also one of those naturally charismatic people. When we come back from vacation and my husband is relaxed, people will come up to him and invent reasons to talk to him, he's so charismatic. I always wondered why I was highly charismatic one on one and practically invisible in a group. Your descriptions helped me see that I both lack power and presence in large groups because they are overwhelming. Now I know what to fix! 😊