He cares more about my happiness than his own, not in a doormat way, but because seeing my face light up makes him happy. We'd been together for three years before I learned he actually LIKES cucumbers -- he'd told me he didn't so I wouldn't feel bad about stealing them out of his salad. :-) He trusts my judgment, and is willing to let me make the final call on things...and then often circles back around to say, "You were right. I was worried about nothing." I'm quiet by nature, and if I leave things out when introducing myself, he'll make sure the person we're talking to understands how awesome I really am. But probably his #1 superpower is that he listens. Not just to me, but to anyone he's engaging with. (Provided he's not engaging with his phone... I mean, he's not *perfect*, just super.)